Stepping Out of the Victim Triangle. A Step By Step Plan... 

Stepping of the Victim Triangle

We can only manifest our incredible dreams when we are in the vibration of them. 

And we all have a dominant neuropathway of: powerless, grief, guilt, depression, anxiety. They are all very dominant neuropathways - because of how we are raised, our society, our trauma, our ancestry, past life and more. The ego loves this neuropathway because it creates the VICTIM energy.

I have been with humans for over 30 years- first as a family doctor, then as a yoga teacher/studio owner and for the last 15 years as an intuitive coach & Spiritual teacher. What i have discovered is stepping out of the victim triangle is a life long journey and one that takes work. 

This "vision" of this new triangle was "shown to me" by my guides recently & I hope it helps you. I teach this work online and in person in my workshops and retreats. 

I find that we can "know it" but to take it into our energy body is different - and that is what everyone who attends my live events say.

Here is a description:

The "classic" victim triangle is the home of the ego: Victim, Bully & Hero. We play those roles out within ourselves & in all of our relationships. Our entire society, banking system, health care system, relationships, legal system & more is based on it.

Stepping out of the victim triangle is a life long, daily process and takes work. But it takes you to the land of Spirit. 

I will correlate each step with a Hindu Goddess/Deity.

Classically, the first step is ANGER or RAGE. This is embodied in the Goddess Kali and can be a "hard first step" for a lot of people for the millions of reasons we are trained not to feel anger. The anger is truly against ourselves, for forgetting who  we are and can be expressed in safe ways if we are taught how.

This does not have to be the first step but is "classically" the fist step for most people, though I have seen the odd person do the others first.

The next step is Discernment, embodied by the Goddess Durga who gives us CHOICE. This is definitely the hardest step - as we have to discern - what in us created that which is occurring outside of us. We are the creators of our lives and we want to become aware of the ego's thought systems that are creating our reality. Once we identify the thought that is creating our situation, then we have CHOICE in discernment - to choose that thought system or the Divine's. In my live and online events, this step is where we spend the "most time" helping ourselves to understand the ego's thought system that created our experience. 

The last step is Forgiveness. Forgiveness is a return to who you are in your God Self. This is embodied by Kuan Yin's energy. Practicing a forgiveness prayer - as we remember our truth of our Spirit Self / God self is this step.

As we move through each step of the Stepping out of the Victim triangle, the energy that sits at the top (like a circle) - though not depicted in the diagram - is the energy of Lakshmi - the Goddess of Wealth. 

Step by step, we break ego's patterns and heal our lives, and manifest our dreams.

Big love- Dr. Divi